While the boys were happy to see us initially, the mood quickly changed as they were struggling with why they are still in the orphanage. Lately all of their friends have been picked up immediately when their parents arrive (our choice to come anyways is still definitely the better option for them, but not easy). Our oldest son keeps asking how many days until we go home. It's not quite so elegantly worded since his english is still shaky, but 'home, soon?' & 'days, aeroplane?' makes a lot of sense & breaks our heart a bit more each time. As I'm sure you've already discovered, the most important things are often said most simply.... I can't wait until I can respond with a statement of 'home soon!'. They've been in care a long time, and being embraced into a family is long overdue.
On the positive side, today all 3 boys were in better moods - the most like themselves I've seen this trip. But to be honest, we're still trying to figure out what 'themselves' is. Between these 2 trips, we've only been able to see them a total of 24 hours - and we communicate as much thru improvised sign language as verbally. Which is what makes this picture today so amazing to me - our sons experience joy with their momma despite communication challenges!
Candra departed for home tonight. Our new sons were calling her 'mom' & 'momma' today - all for the first time ever! It was a great gift for her - but doesn't make leaving any easier!
I continue on here in Ethiopia and wait to hear results before we can plan next steps. But without a doubt, our sons are worth the fight & frustration & difficulties.
And I get to go see them again tomorrow morning. 'Dad, tomorrow come?' he asked.
ABSOLUTELY.
Riley
Well that counts as my cry for the day. Brings back so many emotions for me. I am praying for your family, for favour on those visas, for healing in the hearts of those sweet boys, for a quick reunion for all of you, for your kids at home, for everything.
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